Internet communication has turned into a wonderful way to meet girls and I can tell you a lot about it. Online dating comes with multiple advantages. You feel much more confident and comfortable and the embarrassment of face-to-face communication is missing. This way, you can ultimately enjoy the opportunity and meet a great girl.
Many people have taken online dating to a new place: Facebook. There are millions of users and someone will certainly be right for you. Do you know the secrets of asking a girl out on Facebook? It may seem like an issue of simply sending her a friendship request and a message but in order to be successful, you will have to do more than just that.
Befriend Her for a Reason
The most annoying thing you can do on Facebook is sending a friendship request that contains whatsoever no personalized message explaining your intentions. From the very beginning, you are getting chances equal to zero.
When you befriend someone on Facebook you will have to introduce yourself, just like you would do in real life. People are very likely to ignore you, unless you give them a good reason not to.
Beautiful girls get dozens of friendship request. You stand no chance of appearing different and more interesting from the rest of the crowd if you are unwilling to personalize your friendship request. It will only take you a minute to write a couple of sentences about yourself and why you are interested in a friendship.
Establish Some Form of Virtual Relationship
Just like in the case of a real life relationship, a girl will have to find out more about you before she decides whether she wants to go out with you. Asking a girl out on Facebook should follow the same logic of events.
Establish some form of virtual relationship. Exchange messages or chat with each other. Let her go through your photos just to make sure you are a regular guy.
If you want to be successful in the realm of Facebook dating, you have to provide authentic information about yourself. Using Photoshop on your photos sounds like a fun option to enhance your appearance but it is very wrong.
She needs to have a clear idea about who you are. Otherwise, you risk disappointing her tremendously, once she agrees to go out with you. Show her that you have nothing to hide.
Take Your Time
There is no need to rush it. In fact, a Facebook flirt can be as exciting as the real thing. I would usually wait at least a month before asking a girl out. She will be feeling more secure and confident by this time and the chances of her saying yes increase.
Take it slow. Chat to each other. The next step will be taking it to a telephone conversation. Getting to know someone in this indirect way may be a very intimate and fun opportunity. People tend to open up in the online world, sharing a lot of private information that will otherwise remain concealed.
Ask Her Out Properly
You have established an online relationship with this girl and you are past the acquaintance phase. The next step will be asking her out. You will find out that asking a girl out on Facebook is as nerve wracking, as doing it in the real world. Chances are you will be feeling like a teenager who is about to go on a date for the first time. In fact, there is nothing wrong with this kind of excitement. It is only going to make the moment even more special.
Ask her out properly. A date is not the logical conclusion of a Facebook relationship. She may be simply looking for someone to talk to rather than someone to date. If you want to find out whether she is interested, you will have to ask her out properly.
Use Facebook to your advantage once again. Compose a letter that sounds romantic and sweet. Tell her how special she is and how much you cherish the moments you spent together. Then ask whether she would like to share a face to face meeting with you.